I Can Help You Communicate to Invite the Best of Everything Into Your Life

How Much Trouble is Poor Communication Causing and Costing You?

Most people struggle to communicate with people who have different personalities and see the world differently. But most of us don't get to associate only with people we "click" with. When you have friction in your communication:

  • Your good intentions get interpreted poorly

  • People resist or reject your suggestions

  • You don't get promoted

  • Your family resists your influence and misinterprets your motives

  • You are perceived as clueless or arrogant

  • You don't get rewarded no matter how hard you work

  • People don't trust you

  • Your romantic relationships may be struggling

Communicating should be easy and it should improve relationships. Most people don’t know how to quickly understand the personality and communication style of the person they are talking to. Instead, they try to get the other person to align to their own reality which makes the other person feel devalued and threatened. I can teach you how to understand your own personality and communication style and then learn to flex your style to invite the best of everything into your life without being pushy or annoying.

How would your life be different if you knew how to deliver the right message to the people you want to influence?

Getting your point across

Communicate using the right words for the individual you are speaking to so that they "get it."

Connect

When people feel understood by you, they want to have you around, and you immediately gain more influence

Better Opportunities

People want to give more chances to people they "click" with. Be that person.

How to invite the best of everything into your life!

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Step 1: Understand Yourself

I help you understand your unique personality. This helps you recognize your strengths and weaknesses and start to understand how others are perceiving you right now. This allows you to lean into your strengths, and mitigate others perceptions of your weaknesses.

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Step 2: Understand Others

I teach you clues for how to determine other personalities and motivations. When you understand how to think about people who are different than you in a positive light (focusing on their strengths) you have taken the first step to gaining influence with them.

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Step 3: Invite the Best

Once you understand yourself and the people you want to influence, I can help you make a customized plan for how to authentically influence them in a way that feels natural and gets great responses. In this way you invite great things into your life in a natural way that helps everyone.

There are Many Personality Systems Out There. So How Do You Know That True Colors® and Coaching From Coach Stanley Will Help You Invite the Best of Everything in to your life?

At Relate Enterprises we know that you probably aren't on this page today because you are curious about personalities. It is more likely that you are here because you want a better more connected life. You want the good things of life to come to you without so much friction. You want to be able to influence people around you in a natural way, and you want to get better results in your life and relationships.

To do that you need to:

  • Understand how others perceive you

  • Have an authentic way to think about others positively (especially when they are very different than you)

  • Understand how to adjust the words you use to help them understand you easily

When you do this, people start to feel a connection with you and listen with higher trust and less defensiveness when you speak.

This higher trust means that over time, people perk up and listen when you speak and want to collaborate with you instead of contend with you.

The problem is that in this contentious world with millions of voices bombarding us constantly, trust is hard to come by. It is easy to say that trust is important for communication and collaboration, but there is very little information available on practical steps to build trust with people who think about the world in a way that is dramatically different from your approach to life.

This can lead to frustration when you feel like you have a huge list of relationship "to-do" items but very little confidence in how to do them in a way that actually gets you the life results you want.

We believe that people who have good intentions should be empowered to communicate in a way that helps them invite the best in the people around them regardless of personality differences. We further believe that diversity of thought and perspective on the world makes life richer and leads to more robust problem solving. When people learn to communicate in a way that helps others feel respected and appreciated for who they really are then real collaboration and connections emerge.

Coach Stanley has been studying communication, personality science, leadership, and personal influence for over 18 years. There are many good systems and some poor ones too. The advantage of True Colors® compared to the others is the combination of simplicity and applicability. MBTI for instance is thorough, but do you really want to try and keep track of 16 different temperaments? We can help you understand your True Colors Spectrum and then quickly identify top temperaments in others and understand how to connect and communicate with all temperaments.

Here's what to do next.

First, schedule your free consultation. You will meet with Coach Stanley and discuss your communication and relationship goals.

Based on your goals we will create a customized coaching and learning plan to help you invite the best into your life and achieve your goals.

Each plan starts with taking the personality assessment from True Colors® to explore your communication and personality style. We then help you understand the common strengths and weaknesses of each temperament and practical application for your unique circumstances. Nothing about this is high pressure, and you can stop receiving coaching at any time.

Also, once you have taken your assessment and had at least one coaching session you will be given access to book occasional coaching sessions at any time if you have some new development or an important meeting coming up that you want communication advice on.

Then enjoy your new understanding of people and ability to communicate without the friction.

Schedule your Free Consultation Today!

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